Such ideas seem to me to discount the core Satanic message about all people being gods unto themselves, ignore the moral imperative of just desert, and to confuse what's good for one's interest with what's best for one's interest. If a Satanist wished simply to maintain their societal privileges, they would avow adherence to the major dominant religion of the region while maintaining a half-assed quasi-Satanic mode of being (as so many 'religious' people actually live their lives). Instead, we avow ourselfves to a spirituality and a code of conduct opposed to the vast majority of these religions, taking on ourselves a name and an icon practically guaranteed to turn the small-minded adherents of these religions against us! Why would we do this if our goal was to maintain some privilege embedded into the social control machinery that we detest? Satanism is about more than just quenching one's animal desires or amassing as much power as possible. It's about creating a personal world in which one is like unto God, in control and at the apex of happiness and self fulfillment, while at the same time integrating this world seamlessly with the reality of nature, competition and evolution that we are born into.
The Satanic female is as beautiful as a bitch-wolf or lioness, and as dangerous to those who fail to respect her strength. She knows what she wants, and is not afraid to pursue her desires and goals even in the face of hostility from the entrenched elite. She is not a sexual 'object' of men, but a sexual force unto herself, taking part in any acts which she may desire and none which she does not. She knows her own power and her own limitations, and is dedicated to increasing the former and destroying the latter. She demands the respect of those around her, and those who disrespect her will recieve her disrespect in equal measure. She has learned the arts of self-defence and retribution, on both a physical and an emotional level. When she is attacked or assaulted she fights, to the death if necessary, to protect herself, and if she cannot prevent harm she will avenge it through whatever means are necessary. She will dress, act, and present herself in whatever manner most suits her desires and goals, not to please the desires or quiet the objections of others. She has no need to conform to the standards and gender roles of a patriarchal society, and those who refuse to engage her on her own terms will find themselves emasculated. For the female practitioner, Satanism and Femenism are essentially the same thing, and she finds a natural solidarity with others fighting for female equality, whatever disagreements she might have with them about other aspects of social control.
The Satanic male does not desire a woman as a sex object, status symbol, living doll, submissive helpmeet, or walking womb. He has little use or respect for anyone, male or female, who remains inculcated in the sheep mentality of social control; he may use and manipulate such creatures in the course of achieving his own ends, but always with a pang of regret that such actions could not be accomplished as an interaction of equals cooperating toward a common goal. Satanists desire love and romantic partnership, no less than anyone else; and they recognize, as many others do not, that such love and partnership can only occur between equals who are able to fully respect one another. He is willing to fight to disentrench the patriarchy, as being part and parcel of the same social control mechanism that pervades all of social life and restricts him from truly exercising his will. He will fight for women's equal rights, if for no other reason than to increase the number of people in the world with whom he can enjoy mutual respect and partnership.
Men who are trapped by the patriarchal attitudes and strictures of their society fail to recognize just how weak and circumscribed they are. Yes, they do have inordinate power and privilege, but it's not going to bring them happiness and self fulfillment. Every moment they must spend keeping women 'in their place' or reinforcing the strictures of patriarchy is a moment of true pleasure they have sacrificed to the necessity of control, a moment that they're not spending in determination and implementation of truly self-directed goals. Every restriction they must observe as to what is and is not 'appropriate' for male behaviour or male-female interaction is another barrier to fulfilling their desires and exercising their will. They cannot fully enjoy the fruits of love, partnership, and family when they must treat the object of their affection as a slave rather than an equal. They may rise to the top of the totem pole, but they can never fly. Their potential for success in any area of life is crippled by the fact that they can never enter into cooperative agreements with half of the human population.
Satanists do not repect patriarchy, and do not respect the people who are still bound and directed by the social control system that creates it. We cannot respect men who take power they have not earned, for these people will be destroyed when faced with true challenges to their self-percieved 'male authority'. Neither can we respect females who restrict themselves and submit to this domination, for those who stray from the spere of domination by their self-appointed masters will become lost and degraded. Again, these people can be used and manipulated when their assistance is required, demolished or brushed aside when they stand in the way, repulsed when they interfere and righteously assaulted when they attack. But until they have educated themselves as to their true power and the true restrictions which bind them, they cannot be seen as equals or treated as such. The wolf does not join the herd of sheep, not even when running with the herd would afford them power and easy meals. They run with the wolves, and live with the wolves, and mate with the wolves; and the sheep are still their prey.
The same ssential logic can be applied to racism, classism, heteronormism, corporatism, religious discrimination, communism, fascism, consumer culture - all are products of the social control machinery which manipulates men and women for its own benefit and self-justification. Whatever power or privilege one might gain by submitting to the system in any of its aspects comes at the expense of true freedom to exercise one's own will. As a God to oneself, the Satanist does not allow themself to be restricted by the rules and regulation imposed on them by society any more than is absolutely necessary to survive. However much we may manipulate these systems when necessary, we recognize that it is not desirable for them to exist and will rise in rebellion against them when such acts can have a lasting effect on the world we live in.